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Black Men Don’t Do Celibacy But Black Women Do – Could All the Celibate Black Men Please Stand Up?
Some years ago, Eminem was spotted in a hospital waiting room looking for the real slim shady. Fast forward a few years and I’m looking for the celibate black man. I’m celibate (as you may already be aware) and celibacy for the most part has been relatively easy sans the fact that I regularly meet…
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Christians Are Doing Abstinence All Wrong.
I live on twitter. I’m slowly weaning myself off twitter because firstly it is a major distraction and secondly the ratio of slander to praise is ridiculously high. However, I do find myself scrolling up and down my Apple screen just before bed, hoping to catch a few giggles before I fall asleep. On this…
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7 things I’ve learnt about Abstinence Whilst Being Abstinent
Yes, I’m abstinent and yes it is possible. Sexual abstinence used to be one of those things that people didn’t like to talk about. Having people think you were having sex as opposed to not enjoying coitus at all was better for the ego. Fast forward a few decades and although sex might still be…