Tag: no sex

  • No Kissing Before Marriage Too?

    No Kissing Before Marriage Too?

    “There is nothing necessary about kissing your partner before marriage.” Years ago I read a piece about a husband and wife who had not kissed until after their wedding vows and I remember thinking hard about how awkward that first kiss would have been. I also remember thinking there’s no way I could forfeit sex…

  • 7 things I’ve learnt about Abstinence Whilst Being Abstinent

    7 things I’ve learnt about Abstinence Whilst Being Abstinent

    Yes, I’m abstinent and yes it is possible. Sexual abstinence used to be one of those things that people didn’t like to talk about. Having people think you were having sex as opposed to not enjoying coitus at all was better for the ego. Fast forward a few decades and although sex might still be…